Three Attraction Builders: how to make her want to text you back

Three attraction builders from 10X Your Texting by Coach Karmos. Builder #2, make things relevant: instead of asking logical questions about her interests, use playful assumptions, qualification and personalised observations so the topic says something about her. Builder #3, make things man-to-woman: compliment, tease and push-pull to create the tension that separates a platonic conversation from a romantic one. Builder #6, create intrigue: open a curiosity gap she wants closed, without using lines that sound gamey. Each builder carries the peer-reviewed research behind it.

Three Attraction Builders by Coach Karmos

Builder #2. Make things relevant - the cute salsa girl story

Three key ways to make things relevant, common mistakes and supporting science

Supporting science: self-disclosure and liking

Builder #3. Make things man-to-woman - compliment, tease, push-pull

Builder #3 common mistakes and supporting science

Builder #6. Create intrigue - curiosity hooks and open loops

Builder #6 common mistakes and supporting science

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These three builders are part of 10X Your Texting, one of the three playbooks in the Online Dating Blueprint. The other five cover everything from the opener to the close.